I was walking down the street the other day, doing my thing, passing other folks on New York City streets, when a strange sensation passed over me. One that felt like I’d done this before. Now, you could say “sure Terri, this isn’t anything new because you’ve walked the City streets for over a decade so of course this will feel familiar”, and you’d be right for saying it, but this felt different. This sensation definitely belonged in the déjà vu category, the place where situations aren’t what they seem but that have a lot more meaning than what we give them credit for.
Hi. I’m Terri Herman-Ponce and this is what I write about. Situations that have already happened, events that feel familiar, and people you meet for the first time that, for some reason, connect with you on a deeper level than those who’ve been in your life for decades.
I’m fascinated with past life theory and the unexplainable. I’m not sure I believe in past lives completely, but you have to admit that there’s something to be said about the very example I gave above – meeting someone for the first time and yet knowing, absolutely knowing, there’s more to your relationship with that person than that first chance encounter. How is it you can bump into someone you’ve never seen before and yet feel like you’ve known them forever?
I don’t know the answer to that, but part of me thinks there has to be more to life than what we see. Do we keep coming back until we get it right? Are we given second chances to right previous wrongs? Maybe. Maybe not. But boy does that give me a lot to play with. Imagine the possibilities of having the opportunity to undo a life altering past mistake, or to make life and your relationships even better because of it!
It all comes down to decisions and a belief in what may not be, at the outset, truly believable. And this is how I challenge the characters in my books. I put them into situations that stretch their philosophies and their relationships, sometimes almost to the breaking point, only to make them come out stronger in the end.
So the next time you pass someone on the street and experience that fraction of a second where you think – hey, do I know you from somewhere? – think about it a little more. You might just be surprised to realize you really did know them before. Only not in this life.
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Psychologist Lottie Morgan knows something is wrong when she starts reliving memories of a lover she’s never had. At first, she attributes them to fever-induced dreams. But when the fever disappears and the visions don’t, Lottie thinks she may need therapy of her own.
Then she meets Galen. Their first encounter is as intense as it is eye-opening, and Lottie is unprepared for the fire Galen arouses in her. His revelation that they shared a passionate relationship thousands of years ago explains the memories and entices Lottie into wanting to learn more about her past. Her decision, however, comes at a price. Galen may hold the answers but he’s a growing temptation as well. One that could destroy the devoted, lifelong relationship Lottie has with her current lover, David. One that could also cost her life. Someone else knows of Lottie’s past and is determined to stop her from uncovering secrets they want kept hidden.
As parallels between both of her lives emerge and the memories escalate, Lottie becomes caught between two lifetimes, two men and long-buried deceptions that present an opportunity to right previous wrongs. Unless Lottie repeats her past mistakes.
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Terri Herman-Poncé is a communications manager by day and a storyteller by night. Born on Long Island, New York, she absolutely adores red wine, the beach, Ancient Egypt, sunrises and the New York Yankees—though not necessarily in that order. The youngest of five children, Terri lives with her husband and son on Long Island. In her next life, if she hasn’t moved on to somewhere else, Terri wants to be an astronomer. She’s fascinated with the night skies almost as much as she’s fascinated with Ancient Egypt.
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I’ve had some of those deja vu moments myself but never too an extreme thank goodness. LOL I think it would kind of freak me out. but I do agree that it would be a great storyline. Thanks for the giveaway.
Hi, Eileen! I agree — some of this stuff is really creepy. Gives me the shudders just thinking about it sometimes!
Eileen – I agree. It definitely CAN be creepy! It shudder just thinking about it sometimes. But you have to admit, that deja vu feeling really can make you wonder, right?
that’s deja vu moments are so weird, Terri! I’ve had a few of them, all are so vivid! I was driving once, on a road I’d never been on, and got a weird deja vu – everything looked kind of wonky for a second…and then it was over. But it still weirds me out!
While you were driving? Um, well, that sounds kinda dangerous! I wonder if you were on that road before, some time in the long ago past…
Great post, Terri. I love that feeling of deja vu, though I can usually attribute it to actually having been in that same place. Sometimes, though, I think I experience a time and place that I’ve dreamed of, and that’s kinda spooky. I hope we get to meet on one of my sojourns to NYC. Take care!
Susan, I’m all for meeting up in NYC if the stars align. Sounds wonderful. As for dreams and deja vu? I’m not sure…sometimes I wonder if my deja vu was really a dream that I’m just remembering. Who knows. It’s the stuff of fiction and what you watch on tv!
There are quite a few people I know that I feel like I know know in some inexplicable way. I know there’s got to be something to it.
Agree, Holly! It’s a deep down feeling that can’t be ignored. Whatever it means, it’s part of who we are. At least I think so.
After having being lucky and tricked Terri into letting me review her sequel to In this Life, I am eager to read In This Life. Terri weaves this “deja vu” flawlessly into her story.
As for me, I agree with Eileen, I’m glad these moments are not so vivid for me as they are for the protagonist. They would totally freak me out.
Eeek! Carmen, I can’t have those vivid deja vu moments like my protagonist either. I think I’d lose my mind. Though she almost did…
I know exactly what you mean, Terri! I’ve experienced those deja vu moments. And I don’t discount previous lives or many other things people might think of as “woo-woo” Can’t wait to read your book – it sounds fascinating!
I know exactly what you mean, Terri! I have experienced those deja vu moments. I like to keep an open mind about possibilities such as past lives and other things many people consider “woo-woo” Your book sounds fascinating – can’t wait to read it!
Sorry – didn’t think the first comment posted 🙂
Yeah, I think my book is pretty woo-woo too. I hope when you get to read it that you enjoy it and that it fascinates you as much as a reader as it fascinated me as the writer. Thanks so much for stopping by.
Terri – Love your Have I Done This Before post above…and my answer is a resounding Yes! I am a firm believer that we can reshape our souls … and those hair tingling moments should not be ignored! I can’t wait to read In This Life…You Go Girl!
Hello there!! I agree, hair tingling moments shouldn’t be ignored at all. And though it isn’t always easy to reshape our souls, it is often worth it. Finding peace, even in the midst of chaos and deja vu, is a wonderful thing.
Terri, I agree with what you wrote in Have I Done this Before? I’m a firm believer that we have a choice – and we do go ’round more than once. Those little hair tingling moments should be celebrated as they have true meaning. Can’t wait to read In This Life … you Go Girl!
Wonderful post, Terri. Déjà vu is a most intriguing feeling; I’m sure most of us have felt it at one time or another. Kudos to you for creating a novel that delves into the ‘what if?’ of déjà vu. I can’t wait to read IN THIS LIFE.
Thank you, Deborah. I love what-ifs, probably because life is full of so many of them. Choices, choices — and which one do you choose? How cool, though, if we’re given a second chance. Jump on it, I say.
Hi, Terri! Great article about something creepy we’ve all had happen. Wouldn’t it be nice if we knew what all this meant?!
Oh, Ally, if only we all knew. Or at least some of us. I think the answers are out there somewhere. Hopefully each one of us, one day, finds them.
Hi Terri,
Just finished reading In This Life! I really liked the unusual concept, the Egyptian elements and how the two stories (ie: “lives”) intertwined with each other. It was a great vacation read. Since I have the Kindle version, I’ll have to get a paperback when you have a “book signing” someday! Wishing you continued success.
Thank you Cyndy, and so glad you enjoyed it! And yes, I promise you a signed copy once it’s released in Print On Demand. Thrilled that my writing entertained you!
Some believe that we keep coming back until we have learned the truly meaningful lessons in each life so maybe dejavu moments are for the times we got it right in our past lives… Cant wait to figure out what lesson Lottie has to learn In This Life
Caytee! LOL Well, you’ll find out what Lottie learns soon enough won’t you! So thrilled you came by. 🙂
i had a very specific dream where i met someone and had an inane conversation and then walked away. 8 years later after i’d just moved to toronto, it happened exactly as in my dream where i could’ve told the guy what he was going to say before he did. i kept thinking i should say something or find out more about the guy but we just separated and i never saw him again. i’ve always wondered if it was a time warp or something…
great post, terri.
Wow. That’s amazing, Nora. I can only imagine how you felt, experiencing the very thing you dreamed about years before. Hmm. That sounds like another good storyline…
Terri, hello to another Egyptophile! One of the great joys of my life was riding a camel to the Sphinx, climbing inside the Great Pyramid, and lying in the sarcophagus in the King’s Chamber. (Not sanitary I know.) That trip was a series of chill-bumps and raised nape hairs. I’m eager to read your book!
Jan- I’m so very very jealous you got to do those things. My hope is to someday visit Egypt and all the majesties it has to hold. It’s right up there with visiting Italy!!!
I have had deja vu… it is so odd to be somewhere or be doing something and stop with this feeling or sense that you have done exactly that or said exactly that… thanks for sharing with us… I am intrigued by your book! 😀
Colleen – I agree. It hasn’t happened often for me but it strikes you out of the blue when it does. It’s a very strange sensation. For me, I stop what I’m doing and try to figure out where I did a thing or experienced a place before. Haven’t figured that out yet, though. Thanks for stopping by!
WooWoo, Deja vu, whatever one wishes to call it, it does happen!
And it can catch you totally unaware and be anything from ” Gee,
you look familiar” to “I could swear we have met somewhere be-
fore!” And it could be true, Woo!
Pat C.
I’m with you, Pat! I still meet people sometimes and swear – SWEAR – I’ve known them from before. It’s a confusing, breath-taking and awe-inspiring sensation!
It’s now Friday night, and things seem to be slowing down. I’ll check in a few more times later, to see if there’s anymore activity.
In the meantime, thanks for having me here! I had a lot of fun!
I would love to read this book. It sounds very good. Thanks for the giveaway.
Victoria – I believe winners will be announced tomorrow, Sunday. I appreciate the visit!
Oh, I definitely believe! I have such an inner ache in my soul for places in England/Wales/Scotland and such an inner pull to things medieval to not believe. I have no clue as to who I was or what my capacity was but I know deep within that this isn’t my first go round. The people we meet that we have such a connection with aren’t something I question. Same goes for people that I meet that I have an instant dislike for. There are deeper reasons causing those feelings. Bad and good. Everyone always says listen to your gut. If you notice, when you do, it’s normally right. That’s our soul’s way of telling us what our mind can’t wrap around.
Thank you for the chance in the giveaway. 🙂
Oh Leah, I know what you mean! I think this might be why I have such a fascination for ancient Egypt. Who knows. But there’s something there – a draw or a pull – that I can’t ignore. I also believe that you should listen to your gut, but so many of us either have forgotten how or bypass those internal sensations and feelings and not always for the better. Thanks so much for swinging by! Truly appreciated!
Terri, over the years since I was quite young, I’ve had dreams in which I was someone else. I could be a teenage boy, an old man or someone else. Once I was even an animal. My only explanation is that our lives are on some sort of feed out there repeating itself like a video, and when we’re sleeping we are open to playing sections of someone elses’ life like a snippet of video that’s floating through the air, somewhat like a radio station that will float into the station we’re listening to from far away at nights. When I have these dreams I’m in their body with their thoughts thus I never consicously think of my name anymore than you would think “I’m Terri Ponce” when you’re thinking of something else. Because it’s mostly in present time, I don’t think it’s a previous life of mine.
Gloria! WOW! I’ve had dreams myself where I felt I was seeing something outside of myself, or having a conversation with someone or meeting someone who’s since passed on but was sending me some kind of message. I really believe there’s more out there than we know or understand… the possibilities are endless, I believe. But to find the answers? No so easy, but how I’d love do have them!
I love the premise for this story. I do believe that we’ve lived previous lives. I asked psychic, Sylvia Browne, one time why my son and my father are so close and she told me that they had been father and son in a previous life. That makes total sense if you could see how they are when they are together.
I think it’s an amazing concept to think, or know, or believe, that we’re all intertwined with each other, on so many levels. If it’s a past life or lives, I think we all fit together on levels and in ways that we can’t even comprehend. So fascinating.
This is a story line enticing and intriguing, I look forward to reading this novel.
Christine – thank you so much for the wonderful words and your support. It means a lot, most definitely.
Beautifully written, Terri! I love how you brought it back around to your title at the end!
Yeah, that kinda just came out. Must have been the deeper part of my brain at work here. Or maybe just a past life or two. 🙂
Nice post. This sounds interesting.