How did you two meet?
Thank you, Fatin, for inviting me.
When people discover that my husband and I were childhood sweethearts, I’m often asked how we met. It’s something you never forget, especially us women. I can give the exact day of the week, the time, place, circumstance, etc. of the event that changed my life. I was fourteen years old and traipsing down the street, walking my dog while covertly eyeing the cute Irish boy lounging on the hood of a parked car, laughing with his friends. When I walked by him, he cleared his throat and asked me what my dog’s name was. I told him. He smiled and asked, “What’s yours?” How’s that for smooth, I ask you? Hey, it’s smooth to a fourteen year old, ok? And the rest, as they say, is history.
Meeting my characters for the first time is a bit like meeting my husband that fateful day-not as heart stopping, but always exciting and unforgettable. Like a chance encounter with the man of one’s dreams, the heroes in my books usually appear when I least expect them, sweeping my muse right off her feet. When I’m getting ready to begin a new book, every face I see is a potential candidate for the lead. I sometimes have dozens of handsome men pacing about in my head, eager to audition for the part. (It’s a tough job, I know, but someone’s got to do it.) But my muse is a fickle diva and most of the time she turns up her nose, sending them all away. I’m visual. I could have the entire story-line plotted out, know exactly what the hero should be like, and what his conflict will be, but it’s the face (and of course, the body) that makes him come to life in my head. Authors are also casting directors, you know.
When I was writing Lord Of Desire, I knew the setting, the other key players, even the hero’s name, but it wasn’t until I was watching a concert on television, not even thinking about the story, when the hero introduced himself to me. He was singing and his voice pulsated with emotion while his fingers picked and strummed a mournful, yet furious sonata on his guitar. The passion was Brand Risande, hungering for something lost, bitter with betrayal. “That’s me,” he whispered. “Let me tell you my story.” He did, and every word, every page grew around him.
Prince Gareth from Lord Of Seduction really kept me waiting. I was beginning to panic when my muse remained indifferent and unresponsive to every applicant who applied for the job. I’d written eight chapters starring a one dimensional hero and the deadline clock was ticking. At that point, I wanted to smack my muse in the head. You see, she’d been spoiled by Lord Dante Risande, my hero in Lord Of Temptation, who came to me without her help. Like my husband, reclining lazily on the hood of that car, Dante appeared before me, curled his lips into a carefree, dazzlingly roguish smirk and took my breath away. Ha! Who needs you anyway, diva? I did, she painfully reminded me as she hurled another five candidates for Prince Gareth into oblivion. And then it happened again. I was sitting with my family, watching American Idol and there he was! Who would have ever thought my hero was a long-haired hippie type from Alabama? Well, it wasn’t really Gareth, but it was the face, the subtle hint of deviance in his sensual expressions, the silky, honey colored mane that danced around his shoulders while he moved. My muse elbowed me in the ribs. There’s your Gareth, she whispered with snooty satisfaction. Now get on with your story. So I chucked those first eight chapters and began again.
With my most recent release, Laird Of The Mist, I’d had the story in my head for years, even before Lord Of Desire was published. I had done most of the research on the MacGregor clan and even attempted to write the story a few times, but something was missing. Callum. This story had a life of its own, with a hero who had to be born for the role. I didn’t try to find him. Somehow I knew he’d find me. I once heard that a story chooses the storyteller, not the other way around. I think this is true with characters, as well. So I waited patiently, writing other stories in the meantime. The meeting was quite unexpected. I was waiting to cross one of Manhattan’s busy streets and was nearly run over by a bus. As I leaped back, heart jarred from its place, fist curled at the bus driver, an enormous face stared back at me. It was one of those huge advertisements they paste on the side on the bus for pedestrians to see from a safe distance away. This one was introducing a new actor on the American scene, soon to be starring in his first major role as Attila. His name was Gerard Butler, or as I soon began to call him, Callum MacGregor. He was perfect! My gosh, he was even Scottish! His character was so strong, so real for me that he began to take over all my hero’s faces. But he was born to be Callum and nearly killed me to let me know it.
So what if it’s eccentric. I’m a writer and I can be a little overly imaginative if I want to be. As a reader, so can you, and you certainly don’t have to envision the same face the author chose. Have you ever read a book where you imagined the hero to be a certain someone? A man you felt was born to play the role? Tell me about it. Or tell me about how you met your partner. I’ll be choosing one winner from the comments to receive a signed copy of Laird Of The Mist.
Think hard, and watch your step while crossing the street.
Oh, many times! Like Lord St. Vincent from “Devil in Winter” by Lisa Kleypas. I always think of him as Brad Pitt (think Meet Joe Black). I’m currently reading “The Other Boelyn Girl” and Henry just IS Johnathan Rhys Myers (Eric Bana is playing the role in the movie version).
Oh, Paula…I LOVED this blog!! I love the way you choose your heros…and love that you maintain MySpaces for them!! LOL, in my head they’re living, breathing people.
I often use Brendan Frasier or the Rock for my heros…but I usually have a picture of what I think the hero should look like…I’ll purposely not look at the pic of the hero on the cover so it doesn’t distort the pic I have in my head. I have to admit that Dante is still my favorite, but I love all your heros…and heroines. And now I’ll be doing a massive reread, trying to picture them as you did, lol.
I’m reading Jaci Burtons Riding Wild…and did you see Wild Hogs? Can’t think of his name, but I’m picturing the hero as the bad dude that heads up the bikers in the bar….yummy!!
Thanks for chatting w/ us!!
I thoroughly enjoyed your blog today. When I am reading a book I immediately picture the major character whose personality and physical attributes coincide with the description in the novel. Normally I associate this individual with Patricio Buanne. When I saw him perform I was entranced, enthralled and overwhelmed with his presence, his strength and his vibrant personality. When I read The Stolen Princess by Annie Grace I could see him in the role of Gabriel.
Brownone, I just saw Meet Joe Black for the first time the other night. Loved it! And OMG, Brad Pitt was beyond gorgeous in that role. I’ll have to pick up Devil In Winter now and read it just for that!
Melissa,
Did you say Brendan Frasier? Did you see him in George of the Jungle? (I know, I know, silly movie) but big, beautiful, blue-eyed Brendan in a loin cloth? I tell you, I swooned.
Like you, I try not to look too much at the covers of the books I’m reading. I like to imagine who I think the hero should be, and usually the cover image doesn’t do it for me.
Speaking of Dante, did I mention that I had a serious crush on him writing LOT? :)~
Hi Ellie,
Ok, I just googled Patricio Buanne. Very good hero material there. And it’s not just about looks, as my muse would agree. He’s got to have those characteristics you mentioned, as well.
Hey Paula. First let me say that I am so excited about Laird of the Mist. I can’t wait to read it!!!
I’m not really good at imagining an actor or model as a character I am reading in a book. But I will tell you about how I met my dear hubby. It was a Thursday night and a week after my 16th birthday, and my best friend and I went to a school dance held at her high school (we went to different schools). On the way to the dance, we decided to make it a fun evening and bet to see which one of us would get kissed first. So we get to the dance and my best friend gets asked to dance right away. I was staying along the perimeter of the dance floor when this cute guy walks up and asks me to dance. And of course I said yes. I still remember what he was wearing — white pants, and teal blue sweatshirt that said Hey Mon! on it, and dockers. It was a fabulous slow dance. After the dance, he asked if I wanted to take a walk, so we walked outside on the sidewalk in front of the school. At the end of the sidewalk we looked at the moon and . . . we kissed. After we finished that first kiss, we looked at each other and both said “So, what is your name?” And thus began our wonderful relationship. March will be 21 years since that first dance, and we have been dancing ever since.
I really enjoy your books, Paula!
Oh Buffie, what a wonderful post. Very sweet and romantic! What did I tell you about us women remembering every detail? How can you forget a night like that?
Congratulations on your happiness of 21 years. I wish you 50+ more!
BTW, my husband and I will be celebrating 32 years together this March. (22 of them married)
Estella, thank you so much 🙂
I so enjoyed reading your post. It was fun to see how your heroes came to you. Funnily enough, Matthew McConaughey features as almost any down home, country boy, or southern hero that I read…I don’t know why, but there it is.
Loved reading this post, Paula. Just getting ready to read Laird of the Mist tomorrow, so I’ll probably be seeing GB, lol.
The last book I read that made me think of someone was Jo Goodman’s If His Kiss is Wicked. I didn’t picture the hero on the cover looking like Restell at all – I thought Hugh Jackman fit him and that’s who I thought of as I read along.
What a great story you and your husband have. Sometimes I’ll see a particular star in the role in a story but not always.
I enjoyed your post and I’m looking forward to reading Laird Of The Mist.
I don’t pay much attention to the covers either. Everyone has their own idea of what a hero should look like!
I have never really envisionned someone being a hero… I always feel that I would like him to drop in my life though!!